Just a few bitches

We live really good together. We really really do. But...yes...there is a but...i get extremely annoyed when i walk in after a long days work...and what do i walk into? Dishes and messy desk and unmade bed and clothes on the floor. I am not a perfectionist but i do like some things picked up. My tolerance level is getting low and sooner than later i am going to blow a fuse. You see...he goes to work at 1o a.m. on Tuesday and Thursday and i leave at the normal 7:30. Therefore...i have no control over the towels thrown on the floor...the dishes laying all around...the cereal bowl and coffee mug laying on the desk and then there is paper and mail and more paper...and ya...it doesn't help that Maggie makes a third body in here. She is very considerate and clean but its stuff and its space...and there is too much of one and not enough of another. So when i get home an hour earlier than him at night...guess what i spend that hour doing? Cleaning up, picking up, laundry, dishes and then when he walks in its all magically back together. "Hummmm...it smells good in here and oh baby thanks for washing my socks...and oh...you did the dishes even though thats my job." All i have to say to that is "ughghghhhhhhhh!"

We are off to Oklahoma this weekend. I am really excited and looking forward to it even though i was forced to cut it short and that cutting it short means that i must see every single person i am close to in a 48-70 hour time period. Time to get creative. And then...being that its homecoming...means that many more friends in town...currently we have 6 drink dates/tail gates to attend to. Meanwhile, James entire family of 9 will be in town to see us. And...my family. So just to complicate matters...i must find time for James family to meet my dads family without my moms family. And...yes...i am the coordinator of all of it. I am nervous and anxious and well...yes...excited but its gonna be a whirlwind of a trip and i am pretty sure i will get little sleep and be real rested for a Monday at work!